The popular opinion on Lemmy seems to be Discord sucks, but in my experience, it is far and away the most complete and feature rich chat platform for gamers. Privacy aside, it’s better. That is why it’s so hard to get everyone off it, besides the network effect.

That said, I’m still trying to get my friends off of it (They seem to be open to trying Signal). They don’t care about all those features for the most part, so maybe I have a chance.